About me
You know what our problem is? We date, we break up, we think "what did i do wrong?" and "i'll do better next time".. then we date again and try to perfect that same love on somebody else :-/. It's bonkers lol :), and going through life being loved the way Another (and then Another) wants to love us is so demeaning :).
I turned polyamorous 4 years ago after moving to the Sunshine Coast, deciding to seek 3 men for seperate no-hassle fantasy semi-relationships. They're fun :). I've taylored my love ever since, & pride myself in that i love my partners more than anyone who'll tell them they do :). We will never speak the word love or share eachothers dreams, accounts or affairs. That would be silly :).
Though we split after 2-5 yrs, we're left with the shirts on our backs, a goldmine of fond memories & no sad regrets :). Just know though that if i get a hint of wacko in your behaviour, one hint of jealousy or obsession, that i'll be poppin my umbrella & taking off quicker than you can say "huh".
Things I like
- Interests:
- I write, i enjoy philosophy, smokin' a little hooter, listening to ol blues & rock, a glass of red alone with Stephen King, landscape gardening, swimming in dams & creeks, & admiring the stars & the minds of others.
- Music:
- Ol blues & rock. Orchestra & other instrumental music can be pretty great aswell. I also have a thing for binaural beats & isochronic tones :).
Favourite bands/artists include Ozzy, Melanie Safka, Metallica, Jack White, Jack Johnson, Dire Straits, Pink Floyd, Tori Amos, The Divinals, Lenny Kravitz, Jewel, The Angels, Hendrix eg. Anyone with fantastic guitaring skills really :). - Reading:
- Stephen King (suspense)
Michael Chricton (thought provoking stuff)
Collin Butts (rude as all f*. A complete crack up :)). Also enjoyed the Hunger Games series & the 50 Shades 3 book series. Both have crappy endings but oh well. I've read The Art Of War many times, & found Proposed Roads To Freedom (an analysis of the political left) an eye opener. - Movies/TV:
- Game of Thrones
Hells Kitchen
Housewives of ...
Parliament, SkyNews, APAC eg
Spongebob is a crack up :).
YouTube vids :) - Food/dining:
- Let's order every hors d'oeuvre on the menu, chat & soak up the atmosphere with a nice bottle of red for a while :). I prefer trendy little hangouts over ritzy restaurants.. & i dress to the nines. I also like to attend charity dinners :). They're great if you like to mingle & form a few extra business relationships :).
- Sports/fitness:
- I'd love to quit smoking. I hear smoking's banned in prison these days :). I've jokingly considered leading an unlicensed, low-speed car chase up & down the Sunny for a lark :). Traffic violations account for around half of our incarcerations & have almost zero effect on job prospects :). Q. Would to Finally be smoke-free make up for my having myself arrested? I think so lol :).
What I'm looking for
- Looking for:
- Friendship
Activity partner
Other - Gender:
- Male
- Age:
- Between 34 and 60
- Location:
- Must live nearby
- Description:
- 3 Sunshine Coast male companions who aren't seeking serious relationships. You'll believe in rolls of the sexes & that men & women need be loved differently. If you offer me a rub, i suppose i'll excite you by offering you corflutes for your fav political party or an avon starter pack & demo kit to share with your giggling bestys lol :). I do not accept rubs as tokens of affection. It's just plain cheap. I don't condone jealousy or over-dependancy because honestly it's very ballsy for anyone to think themselves dependable in this day & age. You'll live seperately & not make attempts to meet one another. My home is where my child lives & neither will you come visit me or meet her. I do not do hassle relationships.
My details
- Age:
- 42
- Gender:
- Female
- Location:
- Sunshine Coast, QLD
- Height:
- 5'4" (163 cm)
- Body build:
- Average
- Hair colour:
- Dark brown
- Eye colour:
- Grey
- Ethnicity:
- White/Caucasian
- Preference:
- Straight
- Has children?:
- Yes (living at home)
- More children?:
- No
- Personality:
- Average
- Smoking:
- Regular smoker
- Drinking:
- Light drinker
- Education:
- University degree
- Career/job:
- Student
- Religion:
- Christian
- Politics:
- Right wing
- Starsign:
- Gemini
- Profile created:
- Over 3 months ago
- Last updated:
- Over 4 weeks ago
- Last online:
- Over 4 weeks ago
Benfromcoolum
19 Dec 23